What would make your life simpler?
Try not to censor the first thoughts that come into your head. If the answer is “more money” – what specifically do you need to buy that will make your life easier, more straightforward, happier, balanced?
Sometimes money buys an extra pair of hands – someone to iron the basket of washing that piles up each week that you detest? Or perhaps, really all you need to do is rethink your wardrobe so that clothes don’t need to be dry cleaned or ironed. Or it’s the job that is dissatisfying, rather than the clothing choices in the first place. Keep paring the initial thought back a step to find what is the simplest.
What would REALLY simplify my life?
The simplicity philosophy
At its most basic the philosophy of “voluntary simplicity”, a name that was originally coined in the 1970’s, is about downsizing aspects of our lives that use too much energy. It is also about questioning mindless over-consumption and materialism, the trap of buying more stuff to reward ourselves when life feels hard and lacking in any real choices.
While the recent “Earth Hour” captured the spirit of ‘tuning out to tune in’ for a mere 60 minutes – consuming less electricity, buying less, working less, commuting less, trying to keep the your daily excursions to within 30 minutes of your home could ultimately have a bigger and more lasting impact on your ecological footprint.
Sometimes people mistakenly associate simplicity with poverty. It’s not about doing without; rather it’s about having enough. It’s about figuring out what material level is enough for you, and this will vary from person to person. Inevitably, people who simplify discover that we don’t need as much materially as our American culture would have us believe in order to be happy. They discover that there is a huge cost to excessive materialism, not only in terms of money, but also in time and energy expenditures.
Linda Breen Pierce Choosing Simplicity
A large chunk of the simplicity philosophy concentrates on the work/consume cycle. The more we work, the more we want to treat ourselves with material rewards to justify the time and energy we invest in our working life. How much we feel valued in our work, tends to create a greater sense of job satisfaction than just what we are paid. In fact, Australians are now three times richer than they were in the 1950’s but despite this are no happier.
What really makes our life simpler and easier?
From what I have observed in clinical practice how much, or how little, we feel in control or our lives can strongly influence our sense of wellbeing. It is not how hard we work, love or live that brings us happiness but subtler values such as feeling connected to and valued by others in our lives.
Considering ways to make your life simpler is not a cure-all but because it is about making conscious choices, the sense being empowered about the decisions you make in your life can bring positive improvements to your wellbeing.
How can simplicity improve your health?
Can we quantify the health benefits of being satisfied or happy? Certainly there is a clear link between stress and increasing your risk of almost every type of major illness from cardiovascular disease to most kinds of cancer. Through various biological pathways, when we feel stressed and out of control there is a strong, negative impact on our immune system (more on psychoneuroimmunology). American statistics show that around 90% of all visits to a primary health care provider are due to stress related conditions.
Just as meditation, appropriate exercise, a healthy diet and reducing our toxin exposure can improve our sense of physical and emotional well being – many aspects of the simplicity philosophy provide stepping stones to incorporating these tools into our life.
Steps towards a simpler life
There is no “right” way to live a simpler life. For one person it might focus on sustainability, reducing their footprint by reducing, reusing and recycling. Someone else might choose to be more involved in their local community, sharing resources and having more meaningful interactions.
Here are some approaches to a simpler life:
- Limiting material possessions to what is needed and/or cherished
- Meaningful work, whether paid or volunteer
- Quality time with friends and family
- Joyful and pleasurable leisure activities
- A conscious and comfortable relationship with money, charting a course between deprivation and excessive accumulation
- Connection to community, but not necessarily in formal organizations
- Sustainable spending and consumption practices, such as recycling and supporting local, community-based businesses with fair labor and environmental practices
- A healthy lifestyle, including exercise, adequate sleep, and nutritious food
- Practices that foster personal growth, an inner life, or spirituality, such as yoga, meditation, prayer, religious ceremonies, journaling, and/or spiritual reading
- A connection to nature, such as spending time outdoors regularly
- Aesthetic beauty in personal environment
Proponents of Voluntary Simplicity stress it’s not an overnight thing, most people take a number of years to simplify their lives. There is not a rulebook. What makes life easier for one individual or family is more stressful for another.
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